I feel like offering my condolences to the thousands of heart broken fans all over the world (including myself) would be the best way of starting this off. Sadly truth is, no matter how personal this is to us or how "invested" we are, at the end of the say its not our relationship and not our problem.
Then around lunch time yesterday (lunch for me who knows what time it was for you) People magazine released an official statement from Kristen Stewart herself expressing how sorry she was to everyone but most to the one she loved, Robert. Did anyone else notice that she just outed herself? Kind of fishy for someone who has been so tight lipped on her 3 or 4 year relationship with her co-star. For crying out loud they have just recently in the last few days resorted to public hand holding! Status of the fandom? Still Confused.
To add fuel to the fire Rupert Sanders in turn released an official statement expressing his deepest regrets to his wife and children...blah blah blah no one cares you dirty perv. So this put everyone in a much different place. This solidified all of the claims. Gossip mags and sites were busting at the seams with this story and then television shows chimed in which caused what I have heard as the Twihard Meltdown of 2012!
Fans have sent Kristen death threats or wishing death upon her among other horrific things. She is probably right now as we speak one of the most hated people in the world. It seemed as if the fandom, who were once so close knit, split in three different directions. One group, no matter how much of a "Krisbian" they claim to be, went directly for the juggler and is ready to cast Kristen off the island. The second group has made it known they will NEVER believe Kristen cheated even if she did it right in front of their faces. And then there is the group that either a) doesn't really know what to believe b) don't really care either way or c) plan to support the two no matter what has happened. Yes, the third group would be where I fit in.
She is a young girl. She is 22 years young as a matter of fact. If in fact these rumors are true then so be it. She doesn't owe anyone an explanation except Rob and I feel pretty confident in these two that if it is true...it has been discussed and dealt with and they will be moving forward (hopefully together). What grinds my gears is the thousands of dedicated fans who expect something more from her. So what if your fairy tale has been tainted?! Rob and Kristen live in reality just like the rest of us. She owes you NOTHING.
You can judge her (or Rupert for that matter) but always remember when you judge someone you DO NOT define them, but define yourself. Try to realize somewhere in your prickly Twi hearts that these two are not the immortals we have dreamed them up to be...they aren't our real life Edward and Bella...they are people. And right now I am pretty sure regardless of what's true and what's not...these two are suffering beyond reason because of this.
So what does this mean for Robsten? Who knows? Let them work it out and wait and see. Chances are if Rob cares about Kristen the way it seems...he'll be a little reluctant but will give her the chance to convince him otherwise, but if he doesn't he just doesn't. Life goes on and they will still be our Edward and Bella and truthfully maybe we could all actually get a life instead of camping out on Twitter every night waiting for a pic or a sighting. If he does decide to work things out with her, I am curious how all of these "Rob supporters" will act. If you support him, you support his decisions and she would be his decision and the hate would have to stop or you couldn't really consider yourself a true supporter. Right?
My advice to you all is...go on and live your own life because I am sure Kristen, Rob, and Rupert are living theirs, not losing any sleep over how you all feel. They are adults, so let them work it out how they need to. So in other words....Love. Peace. Twilight.